tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-88432616123445761.post6876379526226198290..comments2023-05-28T01:49:23.470-07:00Comments on Dear Judy: Navy Guy News!Judy Torreshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01959100310748356791noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-88432616123445761.post-84020448667845277482010-07-08T18:30:39.304-07:002010-07-08T18:30:39.304-07:00Love you girl. xoxoxo AND THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHIN...Love you girl. xoxoxo AND THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING. YOUR THE BEST.Dianahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10109775197049926437noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-88432616123445761.post-89218116873412488772010-06-11T14:33:10.302-07:002010-06-11T14:33:10.302-07:00LOVE is such a powerfull word. Did he mean love yo...LOVE is such a powerfull word. Did he mean love you because he thinks your a great person or does he love you like he wants to be your hubby? Men can be so tricky sometimes...but he should be more clear on what he truely feels.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07440319071548758398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-88432616123445761.post-59976674844239667622010-06-10T10:22:40.549-07:002010-06-10T10:22:40.549-07:00Judy - As someone in your exact position at the mo...Judy - As someone in your exact position at the moment...all I can tell you is you've got to go by what your instinct tells you...when the world is telling you to give him the boot I'm telling you if your heart is telling you to hold on then hold on...only your heart knows what's right. If you get hurt in the process then you have the memories of a beautiful love to carry you on your quest for that life partner...pray on it and it will come! I am holding on to someone when the world is telling me to let go but I'm basing it on faith and the fact that he says "I'm here with you" "I'm not with anyone else" "I do care for you and I do love you." I pray every day that he makes up his mind and realizes that we are more than just friends and I believe in the power of prayer and I believe we will be more than just friends. As a fellow Aquinite I know somewhere along the way we learned about self-respect and not allowing a man to walk all over you - but think about it this way - he's not abusing you he's being honest...he's more than likely afraid to jump into a relationship because he has baggage from previous relationships - yet, that also shows you he has the ability to love wholeheartedly and that is an asset not all men possess add to that that in the least he's not playing games with you and give him credit for his honesty. If the foundation of your relationship has been open communication and honesty from day one then you've achieved the first step towards building a SOLID foundation. In life we can not build a lifelong relationship without having formed solid foundations...I wish you all the best and pray that both you and I can actually achieve our goal of finding that life partner!!! Luv ya girl and take care - Flor<br /><br />P.S. Sorry for the run-on sentences...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-88432616123445761.post-9323564903692217332010-06-10T10:11:01.598-07:002010-06-10T10:11:01.598-07:00I'm very confused right now. LOL! Happy Birt...I'm very confused right now. LOL! Happy Birthday, by the way. Ok. Back to business. Did he remember that he told you he "couldn't be in a relationship right now." But then in his head you were his girl? Very convenient for him. But it doesn't work like that. You're doing the right thing by protecting your heart. There's no sense in making the same mistakes over and over again.<br /><br />Love you! xoxoxoxAngel Lovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07395230918151879056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-88432616123445761.post-11961388329522143422010-06-10T06:57:51.053-07:002010-06-10T06:57:51.053-07:00Thank you everyone! Amorlatino...I'm turning ...Thank you everyone! Amorlatino...I'm turning 42, not 45! LOl..that's why I look much younger! LOL. All of you have wonderful advice & insight! Leslie, GREAT response...practical & you have great perception! Thank you! I'll keep you all posted!Judy Torreshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01959100310748356791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-88432616123445761.post-55395745249492280522010-06-10T04:23:13.279-07:002010-06-10T04:23:13.279-07:00I am going to be blunt- please forgive me but...Th...I am going to be blunt- please forgive me but...The MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION is: Can YOU handle a LONG DISTANCE relationship? Think holidays, birthdays, - and remember the US govt has been extending deployments- so that means he may be overseas 1-3 years-ARE YOU ABLE TO HANDLE THAT???? It's like being married to laywers or doctors during law school / medical school / residency training who work 70 - 90 hour workweeks including weekends. If you know of one, ask the woman how they managed it emotionally? love you xooxLeslieMGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07406502536368114535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-88432616123445761.post-24712856131177016412010-06-09T22:58:08.049-07:002010-06-09T22:58:08.049-07:00Hi Judy re: your turning 45 on sunday your only as...Hi Judy re: your turning 45 on sunday your only as old as you feel cause you dont look it you look much much youngerUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11092091706516533285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-88432616123445761.post-36590804933100969852010-06-09T22:21:52.059-07:002010-06-09T22:21:52.059-07:00Wow Judy, as in wow for Navy Guy. I was in the sa...Wow Judy, as in wow for Navy Guy. I was in the same position as u and still kinda am now. I don’t kno what to do just yet bout my situation but for yours, I say you should give him options. He either stops playing games and really say wat he feels and I was hoping that he really meant that he loved u or u will just walk away bcuz u deserve soooo much better. There are other fishes in sea that will kill to b with u. Take Chicago Chico for example. I think he really likes u as well but in a way more than Navy Guy. Not trying to get off topic but how is he by the way? But n e way, wait til July for when Navy Guy comes and sort things out. Remember actions speak louder than words. Now he has to prove, in action, that he really wants u. if nothing changes then u have ur answer. I do hope u find that special someone or should I say as the good Book does, that special someone will find u, cuz u deserve nothing but the best. Love ya gurlie and don’t worry ur King is coming!!Shaquintahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09392150392606627219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-88432616123445761.post-61617015534220756352010-06-09T20:34:59.800-07:002010-06-09T20:34:59.800-07:00Happy Early Birthday and I say screw him... if he ...Happy Early Birthday and I say screw him... if he can't man up then you should REALLY kick him to the curb for GOOD. You deserve MUCH better woman.Terrihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14110825400721240611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-88432616123445761.post-24262036016083545522010-06-09T20:27:02.534-07:002010-06-09T20:27:02.534-07:00WOW!! that was deep. I think the man is confused ...WOW!! that was deep. I think the man is confused and does not know what he wants but I do feel that he does care about you and does have some type of feelings for you. But if he can't give you the same 100% you put in...than he ain't the one for you and it's his loss!Butterfly-Sunshinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14897580253431419774noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-88432616123445761.post-3166435596952611552010-06-09T20:16:39.091-07:002010-06-09T20:16:39.091-07:00it sounds like he was very unclear with his feelin...it sounds like he was very unclear with his feelings. and thats not cool if he said something as strong as "I Love You" and then cry amnesia when u asked him about it. u r such an amazing person judy. i see how much u care for people on facebook.. u r always trying to help others. u also have to put yourself first once in a while too. u are an amazing woman and u deserve an amazing man. i would give navy guy an ultimatum.. if he wants to continue to talk to u and continue something with u, he must be clear about what he wants from u. u can not keep wondering what u guys are and what he is thinking or feeling. he obviously likes u alot bc he always wants to travel to see u and to talk to u. so either he stops the games and decides what he wants, or he can hit the road jack!! i know it is hard bc u developed feelings for him but u need to save ur feelings for someone who can return them in the same way that u r giving them out!!<br /><br /><3, AndreaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com